I agree. Caring others do not mean to let them decide for your life.
Life affords you the privilege of making your own decisions! Allowing others to make the decisions for you, can weaken you and cause you to lose sight of the path you are currently on. Seeking advice is a good thing, but not when you leave the decision up to the person you are seeking advice from. Don’t let someone pressure you into making a decision you will eventually regret!